Research suggests that medication-assisted treatment (MAT) can be an effective approach to recovery from opioid use disorder (OUD). However, some family members may not understand why someone who’s working to stop using opioids would take methadone as part of their treatment plan. That misunderstanding can be painful.
One member of MyOpioidRecoveryTeam shared, “The feeling of not being understood by the people closest to you is one of the loneliest parts of all of this.”
So, what can you do if your family doesn’t support your methadone treatment? Learning how to respond to questions and criticism, set healthy boundaries, and find support from people who understand can help you protect your recovery.
If you worked with a healthcare provider or substance use disorder (SUD) specialist to develop a treatment plan based on your individual needs and goals, you’ve already taken a brave step in asking for help. You don’t need to convince anyone else that your recovery process is valid.
At the same time, research suggests that family support can play an important role in recovery. If your loved ones have questions or concerns about MAT, sharing a few facts about how it works may help them better understand why methadone is part of your treatment plan.
Here are some facts you can share:
You can share these facts with your family if you feel comfortable doing so. But don’t feel like you have to answer every question or respond to every comment. Your well-being and recovery come first.
If you need more information, talking points, or support, your healthcare provider or substance use disorder specialist can help.
Family dynamics can be complicated. Even when you share information and answer questions about your treatment, some family members may continue to criticize or pressure you. You don’t have to keep trying to convince someone who isn’t willing to listen.
Self-care is important during this time, and protecting your recovery can mean setting boundaries.
To set boundaries, you might:
If a family member threatens your housing, transportation, finances, or ability to access treatment because of your decision to take methadone, tell your treatment team.
A social worker, case manager, counselor, or other care team member may be able to help you find resources. This can help ensure that strained family dynamics don’t interfere with your treatment and recovery.
Some family members may genuinely want to understand your treatment but have a hard time doing so. Support groups such as Al-Anon or Nar-Anon may be helpful. These groups are for people affected by someone else’s substance use disorder and can provide a place to learn, ask questions, and get support of their own.
Family members may also benefit from talking with a therapist or counselor. You can suggest these options if it feels appropriate, but you aren’t responsible for making them seek help or finding resources for them. Your priority is your own treatment and recovery.
Your treatment team may also be able to suggest resources that are appropriate for family members.
Sometimes, family members may not be as supportive as you need them to be. But that doesn’t mean you have to navigate recovery alone. Connecting with people who understand MAT and what you’re experiencing can help you feel supported, stay connected to your treatment, and work toward your recovery goals.
Here are a few places to find support and community in opioid recovery:
Support is available, even if it doesn’t come from the people you expected. And you don’t have to get all of your support from one person or place.
You can work on building a support network that includes people who listen, respect your choices, and encourage your recovery, whether they are related to you or not. You don’t have to navigate this journey by yourself.
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